Dear sweet child of mine,
You turned 14 today! How is that even possible? You were my first born, the one who made my dream of becoming a mother reality. Time has passed way too quickly. I watched you go to preschool, then kindergarten. I saw you in tears with your friends when you finished 5th grade. I blinked and you walked into that great big middle school. I blinked again and you'll be a freshman in a few short months. I still remember the night you came to us in tears because your best friend hurt your feelings. You were 12 at the time. I hate to see you getting hurt but at the same time, I am thankful you came to us to share your raw feelings. We explained to you that friendship breakups are a normal part of growing up (especially when you're still figuring out your identity). Friendships are a reflection of who we are and what we need. Friendships only last if both parties mutually bring value to each other's lives. Sometimes the people we think will be by our sides forever aren't. It's perfectly fine to miss the ones who go but cherish the ones who stay. The world is full of so much that is beyond our control. As parents, we set limits to protect you. However, the truth is, we know we can't protect you forever. I'll do anything for you including fighting with 2000+ people to get you a ticket to a BTS concert. Spent a whole day in the car to get to a different state and sat in the cold for 3 hours just so you can see your favorite band. People think I am crazy but I bet to differ. You deserve it!
Love you,
Mom, Dad and Madelyn
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